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Kurt Donald Cobain is born to Wendy and Donald Cobain on February
20, 1967, in a small town 140 kilometers south west of Seattle called Hoquaim. His mother a cocktail waitress and his father
an auto mechanic. They soon moved to another small, but nicer town known as Aberdeen. A very depressed and dying logging town.
(This is where Kurt's future band would be started). His father soon got a job at the local lumber mill counting logs. While
his mother stayed home to take care of her children.
At the early age of 2, Kurt started to show an interest in music.
His mother not surprised, because her side of the family were musically talented. Kurt's aunt Mary tried to teach him to play
guitar, but he can't stay still for a long time, because he was to hyper. The doctors prescribed a drug called Ritalin for
Kurt. It would keep him awake till 4 in the morning sometimes. Wendy decided to get Kurt a drumset. So she and Donald went
and got a mickey mouse drumset for him. Every day after school, Kurt would come home and beat the hell out it. Till one day
it just broke. Kurt would sometimes go over to his uncle Chuck's place and Chuck would put him in the basement, give him a
microphone, and he would tape Kurt singing.
Kurt's mom made sure he and his sister, Kim, looked good for school. She'd
make sure their hair was combed and their teeth was always clean. She'd dress them in the nicest clothes she could afford.
Kurt says him mom always told him not to hang around the poor kids, because she didn't people to think they were poor also.
Kurt used to pick on this one kid who smelled like pee. He eventually stopped, because he figured the smelly kid was probably
cooler than anybody else. Kurt's house was in the middle of the trashiest neighborhood, but it was the nicest. His father
made sure of that. He installed wall-to-wall carpeting, fake-brick fireplace and made sure the outside looked good. Kurt described
his house as white-trash posing as middle-class.
When Kurt was around 7 or 8 his idol was Evel Knievel. He too wanted
to be a stuntman when he grew up. While going through this phase Kurt would often go inside and take all the blankets and
pillows he could find, take them outside and spread it out on the deck. He would climb onto the roof and jump off onto the
padded platform he had made. Once he found a piece of metal, attached firecrackers to it, duct-taped it to his chest, and
then lit the firecrackers off. He soon realized he didn't want to be a stuntman anymore.
When Kurt was 8, his mother
decided to divorce Don. She says she did it, because he was never around to spend time with his family. He would always be
off playing sports, coaching teams, or refereeing some kind of activity. Kurt took the divorce very severely. It hurt so bad
that he hated his parents afterwards. Mostly his father though. He was ashamed that his parents split up. This made Kurt shy
and not as outgoing as he had once been.
His mom got remarried to a guy named Pat O'conner, and his father also got
remarried. (I don't know the name of her though). She had kids of her own. While Kurt was staying with his father, he didn't
get along with the others. Especially his new mom. He soon realized that his father was paying more attention to his step
kids than he was to his own son. Don had made Kurt join the junior high wrestling team. Kurt liked it a little and he was
good at it too. During a championship match, to get back at his dad, to piss him off, he would let his oppenent pin him. Then
he'd look at his dad and give him a smile. His dad left imediately. Kurt had embarassed him. His little plan worked. Kurt's
teenage years consisted mostly of moving back and fourth from his mother's house to his father's house constantly. He even
had lived with some of his uncle's and aunt's houses and he even lived with his grandparents for a short time. This meant
he had to keep switching schools. Kurt would get into trouble for vandalism, into trouble with his mom for drugs, into trouble
with the police for spray-painting God is gay on the side of a truck. He was fined $180. While living with his mom, Kurt found
a friend. His name was Myer Loftin. Loftin would often spend the night at Kurt's house on the weekends and party. One time
Kurt's mom came home from a party of her own and she caught the two smoking pot. Trying to scare them out of smoking pot in
the future, she ate their stash. She was high and sick the rest of the night. (It didn't scare them, cause they kept smoking
it). Loftin eventually told Kurt that he was gay. It didn't bother Kurt though. Until he started to get beat up in the locker
room after phys. ed. He took the crap for a little while, but he soon afterwards found Loftin and told him he couldn't be
his friend anymore. Loftin understood completely.
During Kurt's freshman year he became a stoner. Every day after school
he would get stoned every night. This continued all through his high school career. One reason why he became a stoner was,
because he was always around them. He didn't like the jock type. So he'd hang around the stoners. Even though he didn't like
them all that much. The jocks were always trying to get Kurt to join their little group, but Kurt wouldn't. The only reason
they wanted to hang around him was, because all the girls thought he was cute and the jocks figured if they'd hang around
him the girls would want them. But Kurt wouldn't give them the satisfaction. With 2 weeks left till Kurt's high school graduation
he realized he had to many credits to make up, so he dropped out of school. When his mother learned of this she told him he
had better get a job or he had to leave. Kurt didn't believe her. About a week later, returning home from a friend's house,
Kurt found his stuff in boxes on the dining room floor. He had to leave. He stayed with friends, he even snuck into his mom's
attic a couple of times to sleep, snuck onto the deck, stayed in an unocupied apartment above Krist's mom's hair design shop
and he even slept underneath a bridge that looked over the Wishkah river. He lived off fish and sometimes when he visited
his mom she made him lunch, because he felt bad about putting him on the streets to live. While living on his own, Kurt severely
burned his hand on french frie grease while making french fries. He rushed over to his mom's house and she took him to the
hospital. The doctor there said he would never be able to play guitar again. Wendy didn't believe it. So she took him to a
specialist at the Gray's Harbour College nursing progam. She would change his bandages twice a day. His hand finally recovered
untill you could hardly tell there was a scare there.
All through high school Kurt dreamed of starting his own band.
He found some people and many drummers and name changes later they came up with the one every one would soon fall in love
with.
Kurt and NIRVANA [lead guitar-vocals], Krist Novoselic [bass], Chad Channing [drums] became known through their
album Bleach. It did good for record sales, but the best part was they started to get noticed by people. They started playing
at gigs, and they did a US tour. They hired another guitarist by the name of Jason Everman, because Kurt didn't think he could
handle singing and playing guitar at the same time. He realized he could and after the tour they fired Everman. NIRVANA quit
with their record label Subpop and they resigned with David Geffen Company. Then they made the album that would revolutionize
the music industry...Nevermind. It went platinum a while after its release. Smells Like Teen Spirit would later become known
as the anthem for all teenagers. SLTS hit #1 on the Billboard music chart in 14 weeks. NIRVANA would later release 4 more
successful albums. Incesticide, In Utero, Unplugged In New York and From the Muddy Banks of the Wishkah. Upon receiving In
Utero, Geffen said is that it! Or something like that. They hated it. They told NIRVANA that they would be committing career
suicide if they were to release it the way it was. So off they went back to the recording studio to remix some of the songs.
After its release people fell in love with it.
Kurt and Courtney (Love) get married in Waikiki, Hawaii on February
24, 1992. Kurt wearing pajamas and Courtney wearing an old dress once owned by the actor Frances Farmer. On August 18, 1992,
Frances Bean Cobain is born. She is named after a member of the Vaseline's.....not Frances Farmer, but Kurt afterwards says
he wishes he would have named her after Farmer. Bean came from the shape she appeared in a sonogram.
On March 4, 1994,
Kurt is hospitalized comatose. He had overdosed on champagne and tranquilizers backstage before a show. Some say it was an
accident, others say it was a suicide attempt. (I think it was an accident. He was just having fun and he went a little overboard).
When he awakened from the coma he asks for a milkshake. Almost a month later Kurt was admitted into Exodus Rehabilitation
Center for his heroin addiction. He stayed there for a couple of days, then he just decided couldn't stay there any more.
So he jumped the fence and went to his cottage over looking Lake Washington. On April 8, 1994, Gary Smith, an electrician,
went to the cottage for repairs and he finds Kurt's body on the floor with a shotgun next to it. He calls the police and the
police report states that Kurt died of a self inflicted gunshot wound. That was the tragic ending to music history, but we
can keep NIRVANA alive by listening to them and hearing what Kurt has to say in his lyrics. There will never be any band that
even comes close to NIRVANA.
Some believe it was suicide. Some people think it was murder. Personally I believe suicide.
You could tell it was coming through his lyrics and music, but most people ignored it. Just remember, It's better to burn
out than to fade away. NIRVANA was, NIRVANA does, NIRVANA will always be will until the end.
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